10 things 'bout Harlow;

In case you were wonderinggg... ^.^

1. I've had the same cell phone number since 7th grade.
2. I don't have a favorite color.
3. I currently have a purple rinse in the back of my hair.
4. I recently caught a fish on the beach and named it Fletcher. :)
5. I live on an island and cannot swim :(
6. I don't know how to ride a bike. :(
7. Party Animal ! :p
8. I have 4 piercings in each of my ears.
9. I'm studying to be a family lawyer.
10. I've never had a pet and I want one SO badlyy !

Random Thought...

Heyy peoplee,

Quick thought, if someone that you DO NOT like dies/ passes away (wtv you wanna call it), How do you handle it ? Like what do you do ?
It's pretty common that if you fight with someone, and they die before you guys get a chance to make up....obv you feel bad and do everything you can to try and make it right.
It's clear that if you and someone are close or at least friends, when they die you'll be heart broken and deal with it in your own way, probably visit the family, share a few encouraging words, etc....
BUT, if you didn't like the person, i.e., no recent arguement, it was just that you don't like the individual, they don't like you and it's a known fact amongst a good much of people....How do you react ?
I personally just wouldn't acknowledge it. I would never be disrespectful and bash a dead person, and i would never be like, I don't care if he/she is dead. At the same time, I wouldn't fake it and be like...."ohh im soo sad, i cant believe it", blah blah. I probably wouldn't go to the funeral either. A simple prayer for their family when i'm alone, and i'll keep it movin'. I wouldnt talk about it &nd I wouldn't ask about it. I'd just accept that it is, what it is. Can't change the past, can't do it over, should've done it better but it's done. I certainly would not dwell on it and let it drive me crazy. Bleh, thats just my opinion tho....Just somethin to think about...

Peace Out :)
Be safe, happy & true to yourself. <3

In My Opinion (Closing doors)....

Heyyy peopleee,

I was gonna use this post as a little insight to some things about me. You know, my interests, my goals and dreams, likes and dislikes, BUT i'll get to that later. Today, I was talking to a friend and we came to the topic of 'Opening one door without closing another'.
My opinion on this is, it's no where NEAR safe to get in a relationship with someone, if you know GOOD & WELL you're still into someone else. Like, Who does that benefit ?
1) Not you...cuz ur always gonna compare ur significant other to the 'other' person...
2) Your 'other' person will think you've moved on
3) Your significant other will feel like they can't compete.
PLUS it's gonna take a toll on you as a person. If your suppose to end up with someone, you will. So why can't you wait till you get over one thing before you start something else. It's just easier to wait and it gives you more time to get to know the ppl in your life.
HOWEVER, at the same time, putting ppl (all 3 of you) in an uneasy situation can bring out their true colors.  This could be a time to see the best and worst qualities of a person, although i wouldn't suggest it. ha.
I've been in all three situations. Ive been the 'other' person, i've been the undecided person and ive been the significant other. But those are all stories for another time lol. But if you wanna hear how it all went down, Just comment and i'll post it :) 

Peace Out :)
Be Safe, Happy & True to yourself. <3 

Hello from Harlow

Heyyy people,


First time EVER writing a blog, I'm a little excited in a loser kind of way lol.
I've wanted to start a blog for a long time and never got around to it. I hope it becomes successful or wtv is blogs become. I'm probably just gonna write about topics that I feel are relevant to my life or anything that I feel strongly about at the time. Right after this message, I'll go write up my profile. :)

Bye now;
Be safe, happy and true to yourself :) <3